“Watch out, you’re such a bad driver!” I exclaimed to my friend as our car was inches away from the one in front of us.
“Well, why don’t you get your license?” she yells back as she slams the brakes. As I process this question, I begin to envision the worst case scenario: cars crashing left and right, and individuals getting into road rage.
Driving anxiety is a fear experienced by many teenagers. Fear of driving can affect all aspects of one’s life, from personal to professional. Simply starting the car in ignition can cause teens to shake in fear. Usually teens excitedly watch the clock turn 12 a.m. on their 16th birthday and cannot wait to hop in their car to drive away, but not me.
With television shows and social media platforms showcasing teens driving their new car, it sets a stereotype of teen driving. When I was little, I watched with envy as the main character Abby Jensen in the movie 16 Wishes got into her brand new red car and sped away.
Ever since then I hoped to drive when I turned 16, until I got into the driver’s seat of the car for the very first time. Almost crashing and frustrating my parents, I swore I would never drive again.
Teenagers may experience the shift from feeling eager to drive to never wanting to touch a steering wheel again can cause a disturbance. Knowing how to drive is an integral part of growing up, thus it is important to overcome the fear of driving.
Experiencing the crowded loops and rush of the Coppell High School parking lot can make you feel anxious, but it is important to stay calm. Allow yourself to wait until the parking lot is clear until you familiarize yourself.
As time passed, I realized that turning 17 is closer than it seems. Feeling the increased pressure from society to drive, I felt the urge to overcome my fear. Practicing everyday for at least 30 minutes made me feel at ease with the roads and other surrounding cars.
Starting in an empty parking lot in the evening may seem useless, but it allows one to become acquainted with all the road components which can help driving on busy roads during the day feel like a more comfortable process.
During my first driving lesson I experienced a car tailgating behind me, which was understandable since I was driving at 30 mph in a 40 speed limit zone. I felt myself losing focus on what was in front of me and forming negative scenarios in which the car crashed into me. Over time, I realized that I needed to ignore the angry drivers and focus on myself.
To feel more confident, try creating positive energy while driving. For example, you can listen to music you enjoy. This can distract yourself from any negative thoughts.
Driving can be terrifying, especially as a new driver. Remember to be careful but confident when handling the steering wheel.
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